The Relationship has to do with my relationship to God, myself and others. There are four areas: Heart, Vision, Character and People.
Is your heart on fire for what you are doing? Do you have passion?
Are you clear about where you are headed? Do you have a focus on the future?
Are you maintaining your integrity? Are you submitted to God and to maintaining accountability? When you ask others about your humility/pride, how do they respond? Are there necessary action steps in this area?
Do you love people more or less now that you’re in leadership? Do you immerse yourself in people or do you try to avoid people? Is your heart larger or smaller towards people?